Don't just Say- 'BE A MAN"

Dear Society,

I know being a "GIRL", I lose all my rights to speak, to act, to raise my voice- according to you, but before anything that you consider first I am a human who stands for herself, who stands against all wrongs, who raises her voice when needed and also gives a tight punch on the face and kick on the balls if necessary

My thoughts, here in this blog are not about girls, giving them rights or freedom, or simply stated - feminism (waise bhi aaj kal zaroorat hi nhi hai inn sab ki) but here I raise my voice against the mental torture you (society) do to your "favourite sex"  male.

Before filtering any individual into male or female, distinguishing them on the basis of their genitals, see and perceive them as HUMANS. You need to know, eating, sleeping, breathing, drinking are the basic needs of every HUMAN, even me, and you. The same is with the feelings, they are the same for every human on this planet. Every human being on this holy motherland holds his/her right to be happy, angry, irritated, loved, joyful, embarrassed, grief, even cry or feel sad, feel hurt, or feel depressed.

You are no one to judge anyone on any of the aspects of the activities performed by any of the humans which you( the so-called SOCIETY) perceives to be wrong but aren't fundamentally wrong.

I feel so sympathetic to know that those people have a family yet they pay to have someone listen to them, I am not against PSYCHOLOGIST's, I myself am an aspiring psychologist but Psychologists are there because of these issues. Like if there is no crime, we don't need any Judiciary or Police station all in separate areas, we are good and at peace as a nation, soldiers won't have to leave their family and reach the border dice with death.

So, the basic concept is we as a society need to understand the power of expressing out as an individual as a human and not as Boy or a Girl and listening as a human too.

I once was having a conversation with one of my close friends and I was telling him how low or maybe irritated and frustrated I feel, I feel like bursting out, he in return said, he is feeling the same, he said he understands my part. I casually said, "Ro lety hai thori thori der, acha lgega". and he was like,"TUM LADKIYON KA ACCHA HAI, RONAY KA MAAN KRY TOH KABHI BHI RO SKTI HO, KOI KUCH NHI BOLTA, EVEN SAB TUMKO SAMJATHY HAI, TUMSE BAAT KRTY HAI, YHA HUM LADKO KA EK AASU AA JAYE TOH TANY MILTY HAI, AUR BOLA JATA HAI MARD BAN MARD, 

MARD KABHI ROTY NHI HAI, BE STRONG, YH LADKIO JAISAE AASU MAAT BHA. 

and a good long conversation.

So, I want to ask society, WHY? 

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And I am really sure that most of us after reading this will be like, nhi aisae nhi hota.

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But I really want to say, actually aise he hota hai. You make fun of a boy who shed a tear. You start the new trend the roast and making memes. I know these words are hurting most of you, But I want to say, 

accept you are like that, the society we live in is like that and WE NEED TO CHANGE.

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We belong to a society where death is worshiped and alive person is cursed, we belong to the society where everyone is considered the puppet or some set of myths named rules. 

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BREAK THE BIAS, buck up yourself, you really need to understand that SUICIDE isn't a one-day thing, it's a whole process. Don't march with candles and cry for justice of a dead.

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BE THE SHOULDER THEY CAN TRUST AND CRY ON, SHARE WHAT THEY FEEL.

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 BEFORE ANYTHING ELSE, HELP PLEASE TRY TO BE THE ONE WHO LISTENS WITHOUT JUDGING.

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Thank you for reading this, If you liked this blog please SHARE and I am open to all kinds of suggestions and constructive criticism

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STAY TUNED

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GAMINI